I’ve just always wondered this myself,, I’ve saw it time and time again and it just recently happened to me,, at the beginning of my relationship I was a “bad” guy mainly because I was not even fully invested, as I started to become more in love and mature as a man,, I became such a “good nice” guy. Looking back right at that moment the relationship shifted and she wanted to sort of be the “bad” one. Well that relationship has ended and now she is getting played out. So since from writing this I realized I said I matured as a man before I was “good” guy,, maybe that’s what it takes for a woman to want a “good” guy, anyway so does there always have to be one bad person in the relationship, females chime in does women even want the good guy or do you really have to keep gaming them to keep them on their feet or so they don’t get bored or comfortable? I know all females are not a like, but again it was my biggest fear of even trying to be a good guy because I was on the other side of it before the, the Bad guy a female like with a good guy and I’ve saw it many other times, some of what I’m referring to as “good” pure his woman first, faithful, unconditional love, treats woman with respect, but still makes her feel special, I could probably go on and on but it seems doing all the opposite attracts and keeps the women,, well sort of ranted on but I’m interested in the opinions I’ll get,,, again maybe I just need to find a more mature woman, like I feel like we both should be able to just spoil each other

 

Most women do want to be treated well, maybe sexually they may like things rough but the whole bad guys get the ladies isnt a big as people think

 

Since Gemma has already entered this discussion then I would say that females should be treated exactly how they ask to be treated!!

G'night boys and girls...........play nice!!

Thinskin

 

I agree but a female is not going to come out and say mistreat me lol but I’ve saw it time after time, and the ones with good guys always complain, maybe the same can be said about guys that mess around on good girls maybe they think they will have them forever or something,, seems like when you treat them bad they stay on there toes walk on egg shells to keep you happy Idk maybe I’ve just witnessed a lot of bad relationships,, I’d much rather just treat each other like king n queen,, and save all the bad for the bedroom for sure

 

We want a good mixture of both. Someone real and comforting and knows how to romance us and show us love. But we also wanna see that wild, freaky and fun side. That knows how to show us a great time. You know like pulls out the chair for you like a nice guy. As they stand in front of you unzipping their pants.

 

I am not buying it Gem!!

Maybe you have never been mistreated the right way for you!!

On a point of order I do not believe you have ever walked on egg shells in your life but I do believe you have broken a few eggs!!

Bedtime my side of the sea!!

thinskin

 

I really dislike questions with "Do women.." at the start of them, because that implies we are all the same. We aren't.

To answer this one, personally, yes I would like to be treated nicely, with a bit of respect.

 

What are you refering to when you say gaming? Usualy when a women says shes into bad boys she's talking about a guy who doesn't always follow the rules. I don't know any women who wants to get treated badly. Sure ive seen women end up in bad relationships but it wasn't intetional. I think you need to find some middle ground. You shouldn't ever put anyone on a pedestal. You should just be yourself theres someone for everyone be steady stay true to yourself the rest will work itself out.

 

I want a guy who respects me while he’s beating me.

 

Girls like "Bad Boys" , "Women" Love "Good Men" !!!!

 

I once told my daughter, there is a test to determine if you've found a good man. Treat him like shit, and if he leaves and never comes back, he was a good man. She said that was the stupidest thing she ever heard.

I continued, what this means is, if you treat a man like shit and he stays, he's not a good man. That's what it's really about.

The same goes for women. A woman who stays after being treated bad, may seem like a good deal, but it's not. She's crazy. Maybe not as crazy as the guy who is treating her bad, but still crazy. What this means is, the man who treats women bad, is always going to have a crazy woman in his life. She won't leave and he is never going to figure out what's wrong.

 

I agree

 

Couldn't have put it better myself well said.

 

"Do females even want to be treated good"? I think most of them do, especially when you're trying to get laid or blown?

Years ago my wife and I got stuck in a storm and had to stay at her girlfriends. We slept in the boys room in single beds. I got fuckin horney in the middle of the night and started calling my wife. Honey bun, sweetie pie, you awake, come to daddy and make some love? When she got up and was coming over she tripped over the rug fell down and banged into the dresser, I was like, honey did you hurt your little tootsies, my baby girl alright, come to daddy? We fucked like crazy, on her way back to bed she tripped over the rug again, I was like, you clumsy fucking bitch!

 

Everyone likes to be treated nicely. How would you like it if everyone you interacted with was nothing but rude towards you? Sooner or later I bet you'd get sick and tired of it.

Sometimes, that smile you gave someone may just may have been the highlight of their day.

 

Exactly right well said

 

Looked for a good man, found a good man, married a good is sexy and horny too...